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This you have to define yourself - it all depends on the girl and on the purpose for which it to you. The most important thing to keep yourself not arrogantly, but freely and not under compulsion.
Что ты женат
На первом свидании, один хер он тебя не поймет, разве что если со мной стрелку забьешь
а теперь по армянски плиз!
That you enjoy sniffing your own butt hole.
Тут Русскоязычный сайт!!
There are no fucking reasons to say or not to say anything special. Just do it! Well, you know what I mean - you must be a man, no more. Just be yourself and go ahead. Looseness and naturalness is your best weapons.
P.S. If you can't control yourself exactly, well, this is a problem. Just try to be smarter.