Подскажите какие нибудь сайты посвященные медленным грустным песням...под которые можно помечтать и поплакать...

Предлагаю тебе прекрасные романтические хиты, которые можно послушать и скачать (с помощью "агента" из videosaver.ru) в "вконтакте":
Glenn Medeiros - Nothing's gonna change my love for you
Ten Sharp - You
Vladimir Cosma - You call it love
Bon Jovi - Bed of roses
Ricky Martin - Private emotions
Haddaway - I miss you
Tony Braxton - I don't want to
Dire Straits - Your latest trick
Elton John - Believe
Sting - Fields of gold
Morten Harket - Spanish steps
Eagles – Love will keep us alive
Ricky Martin - Nobody wants to be lonely
Duran Duran - Ordinary world
Duran Duran – Come undone
Neneh Cherry - 7 seconds
Mr Big - Wild world
Seal – Crazy
Seal – Prayer for the dying
Seal - Love's divine
Mariah Carey - Without you
Mariah Carey - My all
Mariah Carey – Everything fades away
Eric Clapton - Change the world
Simply Red - Stars
Bryan Adams - Please forgive me
Roxette – Rain
Roxette – It must have been love
Phil Collins – Another day in paradise
Phil Collins – One more night
Phil Collins – Hold on my heart
Gorky Park - Two candles
Gorky Park - Stranger
Scorpions - You and I
Reamonn – Supergirl
Reamonn - Star
Meat Loaf - Rock and roll dreams come through
Bryan Adams - Do I have to say the words
A-ha – Lifelines
Dave Grusin – Hauting me
Sade – No ordinary love
Lauren Christy – Anywhere the wind blows
Юрий Антонов – 20 лет спустя
Eros Ramazzotti & Cher – Piu che puoi
Kenny G – Going home
E-type – Do you always
Paul Hertzog – One my own
Stereophonics – Maybe tomorrow
Starship – Sara

Не знаю как насчёт сайта, но у Scorpions очень много песен, подходящих под вашу категорию: Send Me An Angel, Lonely Nights, When You Came Into My Life, Are You The One, Obsession, A Moment In A Millions Years, Maybe I Maybe You, Sly. Все эти песни просто шедевры и трогают за душу.