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Both bring in the pain from their growing up and maybe of other unresolved relationships.
We all have had our pain and hardships to endure. Where does it go?
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It is clear that when two people relate and there is a lot of unprocessed stuff in their subconscious mind, all that ‘stuff’ is going to be acted out in the relationship. Not in the beginning. In the beginning all is fine. But when they get to know each other better ...Both bring in the pain from their growing up and maybe of other unresolved relationships. We all have had our pain and hardships to endure. Where does it go?
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